You're in better shape than I thought if she's toeing the "I hate kids line."
Women who are consciously or unconsciously angling for the kid tend to attempt tighter and tighter control as a platform for their pregnancy/infant care.
If you can get your own place, or perhaps if that's impossible, a place with an older experienced ugly guy who knows how to mind own business, it might be worth it to hang onto her if you can.
Reliable sex makes for a much more confident and resilient player.