Here's the deal. I've been in and out of the game for the last couple years. Right now I'm living in Nicaragua, for all intents and purposes I'm single again, and so I'm starting to do more approaches and getting back into the swing of things.
Tonight I approached a beautiful hb9 Nicaraguan girl, 21 years old (I'm 36) and her friend. They were sitting outside at a restaurant. I just walked up , sat down and started talking with the hb9. Great chemistry, kino etc for about an hour. We conversed in Spanish for what it's worth. Ive been down here two years and so my spanish is decent.
Anway after about an hour or so I got the hb9s number and email, hung out for a few minutes more, they then invited me to go to another club with them, i was planning on it, but then after a few more minutes of hanging out, i felt the vibe start to shift. They were making phone calls, a couple other male friends showed up and the whole mood just seemed to shift dramatically, so I decided to call it a night and take off.
What I'm curious to know is how other guys deal with situations when everything seems to be going great and then the mood shifts for whatever reason, whether someone else comes into the set, you run out of shit to talk about, or whatever.... Do you gracefully make an exit, as I did... or do you plow through and try to get the mood back up again. I like to leave things on a high note but I also can't help but feeling like maybe things could have progressed much further had I not bailed so soon.
In situations like this should you stay or should you go? Is it better to leave on a high note or simply plow through and get the state elevated again. At what point is it better to just walk away?
Thanks for your thoughts and feedback.
Tonight I approached a beautiful hb9 Nicaraguan girl, 21 years old (I'm 36) and her friend. They were sitting outside at a restaurant. I just walked up , sat down and started talking with the hb9. Great chemistry, kino etc for about an hour. We conversed in Spanish for what it's worth. Ive been down here two years and so my spanish is decent.
Anway after about an hour or so I got the hb9s number and email, hung out for a few minutes more, they then invited me to go to another club with them, i was planning on it, but then after a few more minutes of hanging out, i felt the vibe start to shift. They were making phone calls, a couple other male friends showed up and the whole mood just seemed to shift dramatically, so I decided to call it a night and take off.
What I'm curious to know is how other guys deal with situations when everything seems to be going great and then the mood shifts for whatever reason, whether someone else comes into the set, you run out of shit to talk about, or whatever.... Do you gracefully make an exit, as I did... or do you plow through and try to get the mood back up again. I like to leave things on a high note but I also can't help but feeling like maybe things could have progressed much further had I not bailed so soon.
In situations like this should you stay or should you go? Is it better to leave on a high note or simply plow through and get the state elevated again. At what point is it better to just walk away?
Thanks for your thoughts and feedback.