For posterity:
This will help.
I'd make sure to pepper in a few comments or stories that show you appreciate her lifestyle. For example, if the topic comes up, there's the classic "I think women being together is very normal and natural" from David Shade. If you're in an area with enough clearly gay/lesbian people, you could compliment the style of one of them when you're out. Like "I like that girl's short pink hair... too many people around here dress the same." Or find a butch/tomboyish feature about her that you like (short hair, utilitarian clothes, how competitive she is in the gym, etc) and compliment it, when it's time to compliment.
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i've pretty much eliminated gay comments from my vocabulary.
This will help.
I'd make sure to pepper in a few comments or stories that show you appreciate her lifestyle. For example, if the topic comes up, there's the classic "I think women being together is very normal and natural" from David Shade. If you're in an area with enough clearly gay/lesbian people, you could compliment the style of one of them when you're out. Like "I like that girl's short pink hair... too many people around here dress the same." Or find a butch/tomboyish feature about her that you like (short hair, utilitarian clothes, how competitive she is in the gym, etc) and compliment it, when it's time to compliment.