Well I find it strange that she would invite her brother to sit with you during a "date". I wouldn't even doubt if they planned this so that her brother could provide his stamp of approval mid-date to help her make up her mind about you. That would be a little far fetched considering it's her brother and I've only known this to happen with a date using her friends for the validation trick.
I don't know the exact details on what went behind planning this date but just from your description I feel like a lot of mistakes were made. And if this was a first date then I really feel that mistakes were made on your part. If it's a first date you should always arrange it around a setting that will allow you to be more intimate. A concert doesn't exactly sound like this type of environment, and you paid for it on top of that; I disagree with the practice of paying for a date.
Discussing her ex-husband could have been a sign that she was losing interest, but that should have been your cue to change things up or to even escalate. If she's talking about her husband you bring her back to your reality. You have to guide the direction that things are going. My guess is with the kiss rejection was the lack of kino and intimacy. It just sounds like a whole lot of things went wrong here. She may in fact may not be ready to make that next step. Or maybe she's a traidtional dater. All those things really shouldn't matter so long as you keep her in your reality.
Either way use it as a learning experience.
I don't know the exact details on what went behind planning this date but just from your description I feel like a lot of mistakes were made. And if this was a first date then I really feel that mistakes were made on your part. If it's a first date you should always arrange it around a setting that will allow you to be more intimate. A concert doesn't exactly sound like this type of environment, and you paid for it on top of that; I disagree with the practice of paying for a date.
Discussing her ex-husband could have been a sign that she was losing interest, but that should have been your cue to change things up or to even escalate. If she's talking about her husband you bring her back to your reality. You have to guide the direction that things are going. My guess is with the kiss rejection was the lack of kino and intimacy. It just sounds like a whole lot of things went wrong here. She may in fact may not be ready to make that next step. Or maybe she's a traidtional dater. All those things really shouldn't matter so long as you keep her in your reality.
Either way use it as a learning experience.