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I personally would rather have no sex than sex with an unattractive girl. I think you just have to get better with time. I don't know your situation, but if you keep practicing your game and being a cool guy, building a good lifestyle and working on your body, then you will develop an inner state that will make you magnetic to all women, including the attractive ones.

I smile back when a big girl smiles at me in an "approach me" way in a bar, but I shiver on the inside. It must mean she thinks I'm at her level.

I think it's a good thing to feel you deserve better.