URM: "To question whether or not Game works, or works as well as looks is almost illogical, since they are in many ways two parts of the same whole. It's good Game to make yourself look good."
This is the way I think of it also.
"is an entire lifestyle and belief system! It honestly takes conforming to that belief system in order to have good Game, and thus be as successful as you can be with women."
I see what you are getting at here. You are talking about having boundaries and high standards. At first it seems like you are talking about abundance, but really your abundance allows you to have boundaries and high standards. I would quibble that you must hold a certain view in order to feel that abundance and so hold a masculine dominant frame of having strong boundaries. There are probably a few views that are compatible with that. For instance some people err on the side of looks denialism, money denialism, height denialism, and yet that doesn't seem to stop them from having abundance. They seem to think it helps. And some people don't require those mental denialist crutches at all. Like you for instance. You feel abundance while accurately positioning your various attributes relative to other men.
I like your approach. It doesn't rely on any sort of self hypnotic tricks of denying aspects of reality.
I've heard that those with the INTJ personality type are quite anal about thoughts fitting together into a tight systematic whole. We aren't grammar nazis, but are very picky about inconsistencies of logic. We can get very emotional about it.
Your way of thinking is to me more satisfying than others that rely on downplaying the importance of non "game" aspects of attraction. I do exactly like you, and call everything related to attraction game.
And you're right. I do need to whiten my teeth.
This is the way I think of it also.
"is an entire lifestyle and belief system! It honestly takes conforming to that belief system in order to have good Game, and thus be as successful as you can be with women."
I see what you are getting at here. You are talking about having boundaries and high standards. At first it seems like you are talking about abundance, but really your abundance allows you to have boundaries and high standards. I would quibble that you must hold a certain view in order to feel that abundance and so hold a masculine dominant frame of having strong boundaries. There are probably a few views that are compatible with that. For instance some people err on the side of looks denialism, money denialism, height denialism, and yet that doesn't seem to stop them from having abundance. They seem to think it helps. And some people don't require those mental denialist crutches at all. Like you for instance. You feel abundance while accurately positioning your various attributes relative to other men.
I like your approach. It doesn't rely on any sort of self hypnotic tricks of denying aspects of reality.
I've heard that those with the INTJ personality type are quite anal about thoughts fitting together into a tight systematic whole. We aren't grammar nazis, but are very picky about inconsistencies of logic. We can get very emotional about it.
Your way of thinking is to me more satisfying than others that rely on downplaying the importance of non "game" aspects of attraction. I do exactly like you, and call everything related to attraction game.
And you're right. I do need to whiten my teeth.