All of this reminds me of the girls on the dating sites who claim to either be in relationships or only looking for friends but, at the same time, they have 8 flattering, sexy pictures of themselves up and have answered tons of sex-related questions.
These CS girls, like the ones on OKCupid want to live in a bubble of denial that anything relationship- or sex-related that happens just happened. If you go in, with the stated intention of meeting girls, you ruin this fantasy. It exposes their silent intentions--even if it's a secondary intention--and it makes them uncomfortable.
And, as I've discussed ad naseum in this forum, girls can't deal with being made uncomfortable for even one second.
These CS girls, like the ones on OKCupid want to live in a bubble of denial that anything relationship- or sex-related that happens just happened. If you go in, with the stated intention of meeting girls, you ruin this fantasy. It exposes their silent intentions--even if it's a secondary intention--and it makes them uncomfortable.
And, as I've discussed ad naseum in this forum, girls can't deal with being made uncomfortable for even one second.