Quote: (07-01-2012 03:29 PM)bigbait Wrote:
Hi guys,
I often do date game where I go for a few dates with a girl before I seal the deal. A lot of people probably think this is a waste of time, and they may be right, but for a variety of reasons I like to do this.
So this is the problem: Lately I've been getting rejected by girls after 1 or 2 dates, typically with a bunch of "Oh you're such a great guy, I have so much fun with you but..." comments. I know that they do have a ton of fun with me, and I get IOUs throughout (kissing, them touching me, them laughing, them playing with their hair), so I don't get it.
The other theme seems to be that I've been dating hotter girls lately.
It used to be very typical that if girl went out with me at all then it would be a solid.
I've thought about asking these girls about why they weren't interested. Now, I am not naive enough to think that there aren't a ton of pitfalls with doing so. But I am curious if anyone has ever done this effectively.
Thank you for your advice on this.
Don't ask the girls for feedback, they don't really know.
What are the 'buts' they give you, specifically? You can work out what it is from that.