Went out with a POF girl tonight. Second time I've seen her. First time I got horrible body language signals, lots of distance the whole time, but I just rolled with it. Still got cheek when I went to kiss. Went out with her again tonight and only did some weak kissing.
Normally, you plow ahead and it becomes pretty clear that either 1) it's not going to happen or 2) that it's on, always before D3. I'm not sensing either of those. Clearly she's not playing the free drinks card, I think I've spent less than $20 on her so far, and tonight she trekked to Arlington from College Park, farther than I'd trek for most women.
So what do you all think is the deal here? We've all run into cats where during the day you meet or on D2 you just know you'll be smashing, they're quick. Is it possible that some are the opposite and just take longer? If so, is it even worth bothering?
Normally, you plow ahead and it becomes pretty clear that either 1) it's not going to happen or 2) that it's on, always before D3. I'm not sensing either of those. Clearly she's not playing the free drinks card, I think I've spent less than $20 on her so far, and tonight she trekked to Arlington from College Park, farther than I'd trek for most women.
So what do you all think is the deal here? We've all run into cats where during the day you meet or on D2 you just know you'll be smashing, they're quick. Is it possible that some are the opposite and just take longer? If so, is it even worth bothering?