[j r]

I am, but I want kids. I have a girl in mind. I think it will work out, but the key for me is that, if it doesn't, "oh well." More importantly she knows how I feel. I used to think that divorce was "not an option," but eff that, everything is an option. The idea of being 40 or 45 and newly single doesn't scare me at all. If I keep in shape and stay on my present financial track, it should be fairly easy to pick up women 10 or 15 years younger.