Sounds like you have more of an issue of confidence, that you doubt you can become the person you wanna be. It's at times like these you should motivate yourself and try harder to break whatever plateau (not slump) you are at in life. Realize that every great figure in history, and every person you envy is/was still human like you, and that with due diligence you can surpass that person you want to be.
Even if you're working out, improving your style, getting more money, or improving your game, you might not see immediate results from girls or in terms of happiness, but the changes have some lag time before you see some return on your investment. Be patient and keep attacking every opportunity you get to improve yourself.
http://artofmanliness.com/2008/01/10/inc...overnight/
You sound like you also could benefit from reading "The 50th Law" by Robert Greeene
Even if you're working out, improving your style, getting more money, or improving your game, you might not see immediate results from girls or in terms of happiness, but the changes have some lag time before you see some return on your investment. Be patient and keep attacking every opportunity you get to improve yourself.
http://artofmanliness.com/2008/01/10/inc...overnight/
You sound like you also could benefit from reading "The 50th Law" by Robert Greeene