I'm gonna try not to make this another 'There's this girl I like ...' type appeal...
You know her, mainly through a mutual friend. She's quite a lot younger than you, but you have no reason to think that's any barrier for her. From what the mutual friend has told you, any kind of relationship she has with men is centered around the fact she is so (plainly) gorgeous and all the men she knows can't help hitting on her - which seems to make her only more flirtatious and unable to interact with men any other way. Unfortunately he tells you this only after you made a move on her yourself and she turned her cheek to your kiss (this was a week ago).
It's also obvious she is very keen to be considered smart and intellectually capable - both of which she is - and not just a very hot girl.
With that roundabout introduction, the question is this: if you pursue her by appealing to that intellectual craving/vanity of hers, by having smart conversations about weighty subjects, you may give her what she wants, but do you get any closer to a romantic/sexual relationship? Or would you just end up a variation of the classic ego-boosting male friend she turns to for platonic conversation, meanwhile banging some other guy with no interest in her mind?
An old adage is that you compliment the intelligent woman on her looks and the beautiful woman on her understanding, but does the latter actually work? Is the way to get the woman who everyone hits on not to be the nth guy to make a move, but to be the guy who doesn't and, at first, has intelligent conversations with her instead? What would Roosh do about a girl like this?
You know her, mainly through a mutual friend. She's quite a lot younger than you, but you have no reason to think that's any barrier for her. From what the mutual friend has told you, any kind of relationship she has with men is centered around the fact she is so (plainly) gorgeous and all the men she knows can't help hitting on her - which seems to make her only more flirtatious and unable to interact with men any other way. Unfortunately he tells you this only after you made a move on her yourself and she turned her cheek to your kiss (this was a week ago).
It's also obvious she is very keen to be considered smart and intellectually capable - both of which she is - and not just a very hot girl.
With that roundabout introduction, the question is this: if you pursue her by appealing to that intellectual craving/vanity of hers, by having smart conversations about weighty subjects, you may give her what she wants, but do you get any closer to a romantic/sexual relationship? Or would you just end up a variation of the classic ego-boosting male friend she turns to for platonic conversation, meanwhile banging some other guy with no interest in her mind?
An old adage is that you compliment the intelligent woman on her looks and the beautiful woman on her understanding, but does the latter actually work? Is the way to get the woman who everyone hits on not to be the nth guy to make a move, but to be the guy who doesn't and, at first, has intelligent conversations with her instead? What would Roosh do about a girl like this?