Quote: (05-01-2012 09:11 AM)Moma Wrote:
Mr Crook, I see where you are going. To quote Samseau, who is on the right track, although I am not sure he has much experience with LTRs, we must be in perpetual game mode with our lizards, whether we marry them or not.
That means that in the pursuit of marriage or LTR, we must be on constant game alert.
Regarding your third iguana and her family influences in her decisions, game her family. Anytime I enter a relationship, I have always been introduced to the family. I have gamed families of different cultures from different variants of blacks, whites and Asians.
In every instance, they have liked me. Once you have gamed the family, then they will allow your lizard to make decisions that promote you two growing together.
When I say game her family, I don't mean it in a deceptive fashion (for all the lurking betas about to misconstrue). However, we know lizards are very much social entities. If you game a lizard who is in a group of friends, in a social setting such as a club etc (ESPECIALLY if she is young, if her friends think you are rubbish and dusty, it's hardly likely you will get your leg over her.
So, for family oriented lizards, you must put in work on the family and charm them.
Again, I come from a culture where they marry for life (like penguins) and divorce is a shaming and forbidden thing.
However, lizards are lizards (to the core nature) with some social modifications allowed for cultural influences.
I have asked a few choice male family members how it lasts and what they do to sustain these eternal marriages.
One of my fam members, who is able to vocalise these methods in an academic sense, has illustrated that game continues even in marriage.
First of all, the vetting must be on to select the right team member. If your lizard cannot dribble, pass or shoot at an acceptable percentage, then there is no point drafting her.
If she doesn't understand the game and that you are both working for a championship, you don't have the time to groom her.
How can you teach a 35 year old how to pull off a Euro step if they have never gone under a training system in their life?
So, you are right in that, we can no longer blame the lizards and that the magic of it is that we have always been the drivers.
Stay mobile and realise your value on a global scene, fellow men.
I knew both you and Tim , would get it. Some do, some dont. This was so not about fucking or gaming a whore. It was a test to verify what I understood, but needed to see if it was still this way majority of the time.