RE SNL or bust strategy:
I only do second dates if they don't come to my house on the first date.
If they come to my house on the first date and I don't close them, then I'm not going to close the next time. So in that respect I have a SNL or bust strategy.
But about 20% wont' meet at my house, I meet in public. About half of these come back to my house that date, some on a next date. Some I don't close. I don't close a bigger percentage of the ones who won't come to my house on the first date, but frankly some of those were the biggest freaks so I don't have a rule against public dates.
I've come to realize that women are so flaky that investing time in 3 dates is a waste. The investment has no correlation with the result. Your are 3X better off going on dates with 3 different women and going for SNLs than investing 3 dates with 1 woman.
I only do second dates if they don't come to my house on the first date.
If they come to my house on the first date and I don't close them, then I'm not going to close the next time. So in that respect I have a SNL or bust strategy.
But about 20% wont' meet at my house, I meet in public. About half of these come back to my house that date, some on a next date. Some I don't close. I don't close a bigger percentage of the ones who won't come to my house on the first date, but frankly some of those were the biggest freaks so I don't have a rule against public dates.
I've come to realize that women are so flaky that investing time in 3 dates is a waste. The investment has no correlation with the result. Your are 3X better off going on dates with 3 different women and going for SNLs than investing 3 dates with 1 woman.