I have learnt to not blame women for being like they are.
As some of you have said before, love is mainly a choice. But sometimes, someone does that choice with a bit idealistically, and someone starts to think that this unique girl could be like our ideal girl.
Women can be shallow? Yes. Men as well, very shallow. I remember rejecting girls because some shallow facts, for example, having short legs, no ass, ugly noise or ugly feet, not so pretty eyes, etc... many times (if not all) i don't fall in love with certain girl only because her not being hot enough. I simply can't 'love' a woman if she can't me get excited physically. I used to think: I just cannot have descendance with this girl! She has great ass but her face is not for a LTR (lol).
Haven't you felt falling in love to a girl just seconds after the first sight? It could be unfair, but many men have felt love only because of looks. I can assure many men could stop 'loving' their partners if one day she wakes up with a fattier body, so big eagle nose, one tit way bigger than the another one, whatever...
So girls checking your SMV or another personality characters is not unfair for me. (Plus, it gets the best of men, the best legacy of humanity due to men improving themselves). See women as kids, as the kid you were, that shallow and egoist as a kid could be, the kid that goes with the person who offers more candies no matter what.
You can have the woman with the best personality in the world. But if you see another equal woman just with better face/ass and you can have her, you will go for the second one.
So it's better to stop falling in love, and to start choosing to love.
As some of you have said before, love is mainly a choice. But sometimes, someone does that choice with a bit idealistically, and someone starts to think that this unique girl could be like our ideal girl.
Women can be shallow? Yes. Men as well, very shallow. I remember rejecting girls because some shallow facts, for example, having short legs, no ass, ugly noise or ugly feet, not so pretty eyes, etc... many times (if not all) i don't fall in love with certain girl only because her not being hot enough. I simply can't 'love' a woman if she can't me get excited physically. I used to think: I just cannot have descendance with this girl! She has great ass but her face is not for a LTR (lol).
Haven't you felt falling in love to a girl just seconds after the first sight? It could be unfair, but many men have felt love only because of looks. I can assure many men could stop 'loving' their partners if one day she wakes up with a fattier body, so big eagle nose, one tit way bigger than the another one, whatever...
So girls checking your SMV or another personality characters is not unfair for me. (Plus, it gets the best of men, the best legacy of humanity due to men improving themselves). See women as kids, as the kid you were, that shallow and egoist as a kid could be, the kid that goes with the person who offers more candies no matter what.
You can have the woman with the best personality in the world. But if you see another equal woman just with better face/ass and you can have her, you will go for the second one.
So it's better to stop falling in love, and to start choosing to love.