Thanks again all. Rudebwoy, no it wasn't long distance. I used to be in mainland europe but not since Xmas 2017. We both live within 10 miles of one another in the same English city. I contemplated compromise many times, of course, but it's a hangup I won't be able to get over. Regarding me doing it with her... I have no interest whatsoever in dancing unfortunately. She's admitted to me that there is a sensual nature (I think sexual too, but she'd never admit that to me) to the dancing she enjoys, girls who dance obviously aren't for me in the long term.
I've thrown myself into a gym routine which I'm becoming addicted to, and pursing other activities as Atlanta Man advised. I also went out last night with a girl I met while house viewing. Nothing serious is going to come of it, but being desired and going on dates goes some way to mending a broken heart and boosting your ego. Girls get it immediately after a break up from orbiters, friends, and social media — for men it has to be pursued.
I've thrown myself into a gym routine which I'm becoming addicted to, and pursing other activities as Atlanta Man advised. I also went out last night with a girl I met while house viewing. Nothing serious is going to come of it, but being desired and going on dates goes some way to mending a broken heart and boosting your ego. Girls get it immediately after a break up from orbiters, friends, and social media — for men it has to be pursued.
Every normal man must be tempted, at times, to spit upon his hands, hoist the black flag, and begin slitting throats. - H L Mencken