Quote: (04-11-2012 10:10 PM)LifeBeginsAt40 Wrote:
Quote: (04-11-2012 09:08 AM)Marco Wrote:
South African white chicks are superb, looks and attitude, the country itself cant be defined as developed but the parts of the upper class whites are developed as any place in US/ Western Europe.
South Africa is a crazy place. Crime is ridiculous over there and the removal of apartheid has made the place even more screwed up than it was before. Spent three weeks over there for work and although some places are nice there, a lot of places you just cannot go because it is far too dangerous. Aussies and Kiwis do well there because lots of similar interests between the three countries. A lot of white SA women try to hook up with Aussies and Kiwis for this reason. Some of the country may be first world but the majority is third world living in shanty towns.
Yes, like I said above, a lot of people are going to have a problem visiting South Africa. Potential visitors need to understand what the deal is before they visit and be resigned to the poverty and other problems before they visit. "Limousine Liberal" types especially are going to be miserable pretty much from an hour or so after landing (when they drive past the shanty towns) to the moment they get back to their protected enclaves back home. They'd have a much better time if they just let go of their preconceived notions and decided to have a good time.
Like anywhere the problem with "get me the hell out of here" game is that women are not stupid. They likely know whether a foreigner is interested in them long term or is just in it for a lay. If just for a lay you're in the same boat as any local guy, since you don't reaslisticly offer any sort of "escape". Also, at least amongst White chicks in SA, the ones you're gaming likley live a pretty middle class or above lifestyle. Moving to a Western country and living there like a typical citizen, while maybe being safer, could very likley be a step down from her current lifestyle. So it gets very complicated. Don't expect her to act as if you're saving her from poverty and famine or something.
But you are correct. White SA and Aussie/Kiwi culture are very compatible. Apart from the shared British heritage, simmilar sports and simmilar weather (at least for Aussies) both are also known for being pretty blunt and calling a spade a spade. So the culural tensions in a couple where one partner says what they are thinking and the other bottles everything up inside to appear "polite" are reduced.