As with any question like this it always depends on the context and dynamic.
Ill go Dutch when a girl is my age, has her own money from family or a good job, or still needs to earn my affection if I’m being strategic. Sometimes if I’m rolling it I like to shout them just because I can, and never bat an eye or mention it again (the only way to go if you do pay).
Imo it should, however, never be expected (unless you’re with a real dime; you chose the activity and it’s out of her budget; it’d break the frame your selling her to do otherwise)
Ill go Dutch when a girl is my age, has her own money from family or a good job, or still needs to earn my affection if I’m being strategic. Sometimes if I’m rolling it I like to shout them just because I can, and never bat an eye or mention it again (the only way to go if you do pay).
Imo it should, however, never be expected (unless you’re with a real dime; you chose the activity and it’s out of her budget; it’d break the frame your selling her to do otherwise)