Quote: (01-03-2019 07:06 AM)RWIsrael Wrote:
It has come to a point where she is leading the relationship by suggesting fun activities and I am constantly forced to be the boring debbie-downer saying NO and defending/explaining financial responsibility (which kills fun and attraction).
I would start organising fun activities myself, within a budget you are ok with... If you overwhelm her enough with fun activities she wont be pondering about these matters herself... In short: LEAD AND DON'T DEER (Defend, Explain, Excuse, Rationalize)
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