It s a common issue . I am also married for three years. Just take full control of finances . Tell her to track every expanses and to give you the bills/tickets ( not sure what s the good word in English ).
After one month make the calculation and do a breakdown by category . Next month say we reduce those expanses by 10% or 20% ( whatever you think is the best ). Raise another category by 5%.
One thing I have done with my wife is to make her understand that she spends too much on not necessary cafe and restaurants . Hopefully she is not a big spender anyway... But I said let's take 50% of this money to make a bigger trip and spend more instead of little.shitty trips.
If she doesn't accept or moan then just tell her how immature he is and how much you regret to have married a girl who is averagely dumb "just like.her friends ". Tell her that she is under the nefast influence of her friends .
If it doesn't improve then still stay with her but try to play less and be more strong . No need for negging validation etc . Just say either you listen to me either you can go.with another man . Don't be scared . You don't be surprised how pussies are women when they are shown the door.
As per the sex part ; I found the best to not lose your level and improve is to do numclosing. Try to get some girls numbers and this will improve your self-confidence . Especially if you aren't a natural born player like me . If you are a big player just try to get some girls on the side to prove yourself you re still a predator .
You can also say that for long term plans you want to have more solid accounting because you want to buy a house or create a company or something like this . Make it sound like it s a common project. If she is not into this ; you can start doubting about her .
In general I would advise you to be more strict and to allow yourself more pussies .
After one month make the calculation and do a breakdown by category . Next month say we reduce those expanses by 10% or 20% ( whatever you think is the best ). Raise another category by 5%.
One thing I have done with my wife is to make her understand that she spends too much on not necessary cafe and restaurants . Hopefully she is not a big spender anyway... But I said let's take 50% of this money to make a bigger trip and spend more instead of little.shitty trips.
If she doesn't accept or moan then just tell her how immature he is and how much you regret to have married a girl who is averagely dumb "just like.her friends ". Tell her that she is under the nefast influence of her friends .
If it doesn't improve then still stay with her but try to play less and be more strong . No need for negging validation etc . Just say either you listen to me either you can go.with another man . Don't be scared . You don't be surprised how pussies are women when they are shown the door.
As per the sex part ; I found the best to not lose your level and improve is to do numclosing. Try to get some girls numbers and this will improve your self-confidence . Especially if you aren't a natural born player like me . If you are a big player just try to get some girls on the side to prove yourself you re still a predator .
You can also say that for long term plans you want to have more solid accounting because you want to buy a house or create a company or something like this . Make it sound like it s a common project. If she is not into this ; you can start doubting about her .
In general I would advise you to be more strict and to allow yourself more pussies .