Next question: any indication whether our Tarnished Virgin Snowflake has parents who are married, and what's the state of that marriage?
The miles on the clock could be zero, but if the fucking car was built by Lada, don't pretend like you weren't warned. Given the Boomers have divorce rates in the 50% range with Gen X not far behind, there's a fifty-fifty chance she's wearing all those tattoos for much the same reason girls often have tattoos: self-harming with somewhat-more-permanent markers thanks to the handiwork of narcissist parents.
EDIT: Unsurprisingly, a quick Google search doesn't find anything about the parents, but it does find two things:
(1) They are said to have 'shamed' her when she first got knocked up by him and told her to expect him to leave. Which probably would not have exactly helped keep her in the marriage fold.
(2) She was said to suffer from 'anxiety' issues which she writes about on her blog (or did before her marriage blew up). For "anxiety" my guess would be panic attacks or full-blown Anxiety Disorder. That shit does not come from nowhere, and a set of parents more worried about their image than about their daughter would not have helped it.
The miles on the clock could be zero, but if the fucking car was built by Lada, don't pretend like you weren't warned. Given the Boomers have divorce rates in the 50% range with Gen X not far behind, there's a fifty-fifty chance she's wearing all those tattoos for much the same reason girls often have tattoos: self-harming with somewhat-more-permanent markers thanks to the handiwork of narcissist parents.
EDIT: Unsurprisingly, a quick Google search doesn't find anything about the parents, but it does find two things:
(1) They are said to have 'shamed' her when she first got knocked up by him and told her to expect him to leave. Which probably would not have exactly helped keep her in the marriage fold.
(2) She was said to suffer from 'anxiety' issues which she writes about on her blog (or did before her marriage blew up). For "anxiety" my guess would be panic attacks or full-blown Anxiety Disorder. That shit does not come from nowhere, and a set of parents more worried about their image than about their daughter would not have helped it.
Remissas, discite, vivet.
God save us from people who mean well. -storm