When I hear you say "competitive" and "massive grinding" it makes me think you aren't much fun to go out with.
There is more to life than chasing pussy and putting massive effort in, not all guys will enjoy that.
Perhaps your wing is trying to tell you to chill out, relax, and you know, actually enjoy going out, socialising and gaming.
You are not my kind of wing, because I don't do mass approaches to uninterested women, spoil the vibe, stay off the drink and grind all night.
I like to go out, have a few drinks, chase the tail who give me the IOIS, chat to my bros and generally chill out. Pussy is a bonus.
I'd say go out, relax and let your wing set the pace, see if you have more fun.
There is more to life than chasing pussy and putting massive effort in, not all guys will enjoy that.
Perhaps your wing is trying to tell you to chill out, relax, and you know, actually enjoy going out, socialising and gaming.
You are not my kind of wing, because I don't do mass approaches to uninterested women, spoil the vibe, stay off the drink and grind all night.
I like to go out, have a few drinks, chase the tail who give me the IOIS, chat to my bros and generally chill out. Pussy is a bonus.
I'd say go out, relax and let your wing set the pace, see if you have more fun.