Need some analysis on this: I travel for work so I've staying at this hotel since last September. Girl at the front desk(let's call her M for short) is cute but I resist gaming her for obvious reasons. We talk, flirt and whatever from then to about mid April. At this time the hotels ops manager leaves and she gets promoted to ops supervisor. The ops manager was a sweet old lady who use to give me Oreo thins whenever I saw her so after she left I asked M if she had any and M says no. I tell M I miss the old manager already.
The next week I arrive at the hotel M says I was at supermarket and I saw these Oreo thins and got them for you. Through some conversation with her and another employee I agree to get her some argan oil from Morocco since I said I was going there and was going to get some for my mother. I go, come back give her the oil and because of our work schedules, vacations and such we interact but nothing happens. Fast forward to September.
I ask her to this carnival that is in the area that I've never been to and she agrees but she ends up bringing another hotel employee (girl) and they bring another girl as well. The carnival is fine we talk etc, but I assumed she asked for the other friend because she wasn't interested. Anyway fast forward a bit and I actually tried asking her out again but the hotel was short staffed and it didn't work out. During this time M gets another hotel employee to inquire about the nature of my relationship with another female employee- we're just platonic friends for the record. Fast forward to this month, over the past two weeks she has actually come up to me and spoke, once in which we shared some Pho at the hotel lobby and a week ago when I asked her to take a personality test. She gave me her results and combed over mine, even said "You crave novelty and don't like stability interesting". We spoke for about an hour and during I asked her out and she said she didn't know her schedule but hold on. M went in the back and looked at it and then came back and told me the days she was available and we set a date.
Because I'm there all the time I got invited to the hotel Christmas party this past Sunday. She came with her mom and avoided sitting next to me and sat at an empty table instead. Eventually we speak and take shots and stuff until 3 am.
While I was drink I invited this couple along for the date- yes I know stupid idea. Anyway we go on the date to an escape room and eventually she warms up and as we start talking while waiting for the other couple at dinner. Couple comes conversation over until we drive back to the hotel. We have one if those deep abstract conversations we're we talk about how she's hard to read and how she doesn't like to be easy to read.
I send her a text saying I enjoyed and hope she did. She doesn't respond but works the next morning that I'm checking out. We speak and at one point she says I feel like there's something you want to say. I tell her that there was but I don't remember. We part ways and then 5 hrs later she replies that she had a good time and thanks!. I texted her today twice and she's constantly taking 1.5 hrs to respond. She responded to my how goes it text with a hey what's up.
I should also mention that she only speaks to me for the most part if I initiate- even if I'm talking about something that I know she is interested in she won't insert herself into it unless I do so. She remembers things we talk about and bring them up in later conversations and stuff so at this point the strange text replies and time make me think this is a L. Thoughts?
PS:She's 23 and got out of a relationship from high school back in May- August but via creeping on her IG all of the ex's pics are still up .
The next week I arrive at the hotel M says I was at supermarket and I saw these Oreo thins and got them for you. Through some conversation with her and another employee I agree to get her some argan oil from Morocco since I said I was going there and was going to get some for my mother. I go, come back give her the oil and because of our work schedules, vacations and such we interact but nothing happens. Fast forward to September.
I ask her to this carnival that is in the area that I've never been to and she agrees but she ends up bringing another hotel employee (girl) and they bring another girl as well. The carnival is fine we talk etc, but I assumed she asked for the other friend because she wasn't interested. Anyway fast forward a bit and I actually tried asking her out again but the hotel was short staffed and it didn't work out. During this time M gets another hotel employee to inquire about the nature of my relationship with another female employee- we're just platonic friends for the record. Fast forward to this month, over the past two weeks she has actually come up to me and spoke, once in which we shared some Pho at the hotel lobby and a week ago when I asked her to take a personality test. She gave me her results and combed over mine, even said "You crave novelty and don't like stability interesting". We spoke for about an hour and during I asked her out and she said she didn't know her schedule but hold on. M went in the back and looked at it and then came back and told me the days she was available and we set a date.
Because I'm there all the time I got invited to the hotel Christmas party this past Sunday. She came with her mom and avoided sitting next to me and sat at an empty table instead. Eventually we speak and take shots and stuff until 3 am.
While I was drink I invited this couple along for the date- yes I know stupid idea. Anyway we go on the date to an escape room and eventually she warms up and as we start talking while waiting for the other couple at dinner. Couple comes conversation over until we drive back to the hotel. We have one if those deep abstract conversations we're we talk about how she's hard to read and how she doesn't like to be easy to read.
I send her a text saying I enjoyed and hope she did. She doesn't respond but works the next morning that I'm checking out. We speak and at one point she says I feel like there's something you want to say. I tell her that there was but I don't remember. We part ways and then 5 hrs later she replies that she had a good time and thanks!. I texted her today twice and she's constantly taking 1.5 hrs to respond. She responded to my how goes it text with a hey what's up.
I should also mention that she only speaks to me for the most part if I initiate- even if I'm talking about something that I know she is interested in she won't insert herself into it unless I do so. She remembers things we talk about and bring them up in later conversations and stuff so at this point the strange text replies and time make me think this is a L. Thoughts?
PS:She's 23 and got out of a relationship from high school back in May- August but via creeping on her IG all of the ex's pics are still up .