I think they are being a little hard on you OP. To your question, yes I have experienced some women who act out in ridiculous manners. It usually is from a situation where they perceived they were disrespected by me and felt justified in acting crazy. Their methods usually follow:
1. Talking bad about you and trying to turn the social circle against you whether it be the office, school or wherever. This includes trying to exclude you from social events so that you will feel ostracized.
2. They may choose to also sabotage you in various ways like what you were saying when you are meeting girls or just new people or trying to get promoted or running for some position. They will be looking to put an ax in your back especially if you appear unscathed by their prior ostracism.
For example, I remember my freshman year in college there was a girl that was really into me but I wasn't interested in dating my first semester because I wanted to get my grades in order so I ignored her interest. I didn't think she took the rejection so personally. But during my senior year, I rushed for a business fraternity and another friend told me she blackballed me. In between this entire time, we were friendly with each other as she dated a childhood friend of mine and she acted like there were no problems between us. But in reality she was still upset I had rejected her almost 4 years prior. Had I known she was so upset about it, I would have talked to her my freshman year but didn't realize how upset she really was.
Most of my other run-ins have been where I was basically putting a woman in her place and the woman wasn't used to being talked to in this way. This is a problem in our Western societies because it is becoming increasingly rare for men to stand up to women but also there is a tendency to believe the woman over the man in the aftermath. So it is hard to win even when you are right because women tend to control social group events and so you risk greater ostracism and consequences.
The moral of the story is to avoid arguments with women. Work in the fields and jobs where you have limited interaction with women. As Jordan Peterson points out in one of his talks, there are no rules for men to argue with women and so guys always risk tons more in these interactions. The reality is that women are far more advanced in these games because they have lived their lives without physical violence which guys will use more instead. So you will always be at a disadvantage especially from those women who engage in these retaliatory things because they are the kind that have a lot of practice at it.
If you are forced to deal with women, do your part to limit interactions and make a concerted effort to avoid getting sucked into the non business gossip. Also, make sure that your personal life is kept completely separate from your work life if women from work will be around.
All this can be harder in college because the personal life and school life often intersect. In that situation, you will be more vulnerable to retaliations and mean girl antics but at least you don't have to worry about missing out on job promotions and such. I am not sure what you can do except head them off at the pass by saying you are sorry after some time as passed from the other incident. Let them have their pathetic win knowing that you are trying to win the war. Perhaps they will still hold a grudge but it is clear even you keeping your distance from them wasn't enough to remove the retaliation.
With regard to the situation where the woman interrupted you, I would just say it is a good to see you but I am in the middle of something, let's talk later or something similar. I am a believer that regardless of what is happening around you, your focus should always be on the girl you are trying to game. If the other girl keeps on insisting, you could say to her, look, I can't talk to you right now and you are being rude. Then, escort the girl you are trying to game saying let's talk over here where we won't be disturbed.
Now, if you know that the retaliation girl is likely to pull this stunt on you at some place, you could simply tell the girl you are gaming that this other girl is a crazy woman and she might try to pull something. In this way, you basically poison the credibility of the retaliation girl and because women love drama, you will have ironically got the girl you are trying to game on your side as you are joined together against this outside force. If you frame this other girl as a jilted love interest, it can be a DHV for you. Your main objective in all of this is to not let her take your state to a negative place and you remain the fun, good emotions guy so you can be successful with the girls you are gaming.
1. Talking bad about you and trying to turn the social circle against you whether it be the office, school or wherever. This includes trying to exclude you from social events so that you will feel ostracized.
2. They may choose to also sabotage you in various ways like what you were saying when you are meeting girls or just new people or trying to get promoted or running for some position. They will be looking to put an ax in your back especially if you appear unscathed by their prior ostracism.
For example, I remember my freshman year in college there was a girl that was really into me but I wasn't interested in dating my first semester because I wanted to get my grades in order so I ignored her interest. I didn't think she took the rejection so personally. But during my senior year, I rushed for a business fraternity and another friend told me she blackballed me. In between this entire time, we were friendly with each other as she dated a childhood friend of mine and she acted like there were no problems between us. But in reality she was still upset I had rejected her almost 4 years prior. Had I known she was so upset about it, I would have talked to her my freshman year but didn't realize how upset she really was.
Most of my other run-ins have been where I was basically putting a woman in her place and the woman wasn't used to being talked to in this way. This is a problem in our Western societies because it is becoming increasingly rare for men to stand up to women but also there is a tendency to believe the woman over the man in the aftermath. So it is hard to win even when you are right because women tend to control social group events and so you risk greater ostracism and consequences.
The moral of the story is to avoid arguments with women. Work in the fields and jobs where you have limited interaction with women. As Jordan Peterson points out in one of his talks, there are no rules for men to argue with women and so guys always risk tons more in these interactions. The reality is that women are far more advanced in these games because they have lived their lives without physical violence which guys will use more instead. So you will always be at a disadvantage especially from those women who engage in these retaliatory things because they are the kind that have a lot of practice at it.
If you are forced to deal with women, do your part to limit interactions and make a concerted effort to avoid getting sucked into the non business gossip. Also, make sure that your personal life is kept completely separate from your work life if women from work will be around.
All this can be harder in college because the personal life and school life often intersect. In that situation, you will be more vulnerable to retaliations and mean girl antics but at least you don't have to worry about missing out on job promotions and such. I am not sure what you can do except head them off at the pass by saying you are sorry after some time as passed from the other incident. Let them have their pathetic win knowing that you are trying to win the war. Perhaps they will still hold a grudge but it is clear even you keeping your distance from them wasn't enough to remove the retaliation.
With regard to the situation where the woman interrupted you, I would just say it is a good to see you but I am in the middle of something, let's talk later or something similar. I am a believer that regardless of what is happening around you, your focus should always be on the girl you are trying to game. If the other girl keeps on insisting, you could say to her, look, I can't talk to you right now and you are being rude. Then, escort the girl you are trying to game saying let's talk over here where we won't be disturbed.
Now, if you know that the retaliation girl is likely to pull this stunt on you at some place, you could simply tell the girl you are gaming that this other girl is a crazy woman and she might try to pull something. In this way, you basically poison the credibility of the retaliation girl and because women love drama, you will have ironically got the girl you are trying to game on your side as you are joined together against this outside force. If you frame this other girl as a jilted love interest, it can be a DHV for you. Your main objective in all of this is to not let her take your state to a negative place and you remain the fun, good emotions guy so you can be successful with the girls you are gaming.