True that it's not needed.
Just the way good looks are "not needed".
Or grooming and fashion is "not needed".
For less than 15 minutes of work a day I reap all the benefits of having an attractive instagram profile for girls to look at.
I look at it this way...
Hypothetically you and I have the same looks, same approach and interaction with the same girl and get a number with the stated intent of setting up a date. The only thing different is I maintain an instagram account that shows interesting things in my life.
She may have a little bit of apprehension toward going on a date with a guy she only knows from 30 minutes of conversation.
When she goes to look up my name (yes... girls ALWAYS do this) on instagram, she sees I am congruent with what I was talking to her about.
She may even learn a few things that raise her interest, like how I went to St. Martin last summer around the same time she did.
Just like having a friend in a girls social circle that can talk you up helps you out, instagram helps you out by showing a girl the good sides of you without you having to take the effort to show her yourself (trying to impress her v. her organically gaining interest).
Just the way good looks are "not needed".
Or grooming and fashion is "not needed".
For less than 15 minutes of work a day I reap all the benefits of having an attractive instagram profile for girls to look at.
I look at it this way...
Hypothetically you and I have the same looks, same approach and interaction with the same girl and get a number with the stated intent of setting up a date. The only thing different is I maintain an instagram account that shows interesting things in my life.
She may have a little bit of apprehension toward going on a date with a guy she only knows from 30 minutes of conversation.
When she goes to look up my name (yes... girls ALWAYS do this) on instagram, she sees I am congruent with what I was talking to her about.
She may even learn a few things that raise her interest, like how I went to St. Martin last summer around the same time she did.
Just like having a friend in a girls social circle that can talk you up helps you out, instagram helps you out by showing a girl the good sides of you without you having to take the effort to show her yourself (trying to impress her v. her organically gaining interest).