[Kid Twist]

(11-14-2018 08:30 PM)Spaniard88 Wrote:  

With the exception of the one I dated, not a single one was worth an LTR.

That's why when guys here spend a lot of time on "If you do this, if you do that, if you do this, then you'll have more success with women," it's all bullshit. That only works if success means banging mentally defective narcissists. Also, when guys have sex with these girls, their deluded, sex-clouded minds think they're fucking the girl, but actually, the girl is fucking them, it's just a real slow fuck so that they don't notice it happening until it's too late. Eventually though, their pants are around their ankles and the girl's going full throttle, no lube, on their bank accounts.

Anyways, some of the guys will get lucky, but they would have been better off focusing their efforts elsewhere. Sure, eat right and get in shape, but even if you increase the demand for yourself, the supply side, in regards to quality women, simply is not there unless you're a part of certain social circles that most of us don't have access to.

This sounds about right.

I found this out on the forum about a year or so ago when someone brought up access: that's the golden dilemma of the West. As he says, if you didn't get lucky early on with a quick pairing (and thus wouldn't be on this forum), you're left for dead even when you know many, many people (who are old and lazy and don't give a fuck to hook you up, or even know anyone worth a shit anymore). You can always increase probability, but it's hard to even [know where to?] start later on in life the ROI is so bad.

The fact is, you gotta get to a culture that is fine with large age gaps. That's when the self improvement you've been doing kicks in. Looks, style, clothes, working out, money --- they matter. Abroad. Unless you somehow win the lotto here.