Quote: (10-30-2018 11:10 AM)goodington Wrote:
Quote: (10-30-2018 10:53 AM)Noir Wrote:
Did you, at any stage, communicate your intentions without verbally saying them? Did you ever flex and show her you can crush that pussy in a blink of an eye and that you're going easy?
First, fantastic post and thank you. Second, how do you do this? I've told her a few stories about girls I've fucked and made fun of her for being such a prude, but since she thinks I'm a nice guy I don't really want to go full-on asshole. Maybe I should amp things up a notch, but I also don't want to issue an ultimatum or sound butthurt about not getting laid.
a) You break rapport and make her chase it. People have a tendency to try harder around people who are unimpressed around them. This is similar to you being the prize and showcasing it. You act aloof and disinterested. This is part of push/pull and you know when to push and when to pull. Generally you push more than pull. (push)
b) You invade her personal space, in combination with the above. You are comfortable with women and your sexuality. This is what sexualizes interactions. You move her around, firmly. You touch her and hold her. You can implement compliance tests also to give you feedback on how open she is to it. (pull)
I used to touch their hair under the pretense that something is in it, without saying something. So, shes talking and I will be nodding or whatever. My hand goes directly to the side of her forehead and I 'grab' something and throw it away. If she flinches, then she needs some work. If she doesn't then it's cool and I can 'escalate'.
This shit ends up being pretty automatic but it's good for beginner steps for you to notice things.
c) You flirt with other women in front of her. You banter with the staff that work there (female or male, preferable female). You are comfortable in the environment. You interrupt her to take that phone call or to make a phone call. You let her hear you on the phone if you want and you're talking to another woman. You don't mention shit, let her mind fill in the gaps. You check out other women, with intent, not in a pervy way (there's a difference).
d) You look at her in a sexual way. The 'I will have my way with you' look. Master this look. Go through my other posts if you want where I have posted about this.
For me, signalling this is completely non-verbal. A guy who tells you he is good at something, is not good. The dog that barks seldom bites.
Don't tell her about chicks you've fucked. It's unbecoming. It's lame. It's highschool. Leave some mystery. I doubt she is a prude, she just doesn't dig talking about sex probably. The girls who don't talk about sex are usually the most experienced because they know it doesn't merit discussion. You either fucking or you ain't.
It's the inexperienced curious ones who will talk about sex.
And for what it's worth, you can discuss it after a few bangs, if you're so inclined. My girl will ask me for stories (weirdest, fastest, best, whatever). I told her a few but told her nothing good ever comes out of it. And no, I am not interested in her stories (I doubt I would be impressed anyways).