[PapayaTapper]

Op read this again

(10-29-2018 11:55 PM)Rhyme or Reason Wrote:  

(10-29-2018 10:13 PM)EndsExpect Wrote:  

Usually when a girl is playing you she has an angle.

I disagree. Even though she's on SA shes still a woman, and women play guys without "angles" all the fucking time. It's what they do.

If you want to make the argument that they always need an angle, you have to consider the creature we're talking about here and it's not always money they're after. They live to feel like they're wanted, and to string along a guy they see as a chump. That shit is crack to them. They also live to put said guys on blast. (as evidenced by the petabytes worth of screenshots of tinder convos / texts floating around on the internet)

What I'm saying is what looks like no angle to you (no money has exchanged hands yet) is still very much serving her as she sees it. It's naive to think that because she hasn't asked for cold hard cash and hasn't put out, that means she's after a relationship. Looking at the available evidence I'd say that's really fucking unlikely. A girl that wants a guy to commit to her won't act like this at all.

@OP

What has she invested?

You can save yourself so much time on shit like this if you just ask yourself "am i getting what I want here? Am i getting CLOSER to getting what I want with each interaction?"

If the answer is "no" it doesn't matter the reason.

R o R pretty much nails the dynamic here

Did you bang her last night?

No

You may not have oneitis but you are blinded by her hotness. Youre rationalizing her using you

Prediction

"You make me feel better about being laid off" means the "I need financial help" bomblet is coming very very soon