Quote: (10-17-2018 07:05 PM)quaker13 Wrote:
Am I the only one troubled by a man, particularly a man in his 20s, moving in with a woman. Dude you haven't seen nor have you experienced jack shit. I hate to start reciting the old trope about Alpha males vs Beta males, but your lack of cynicism is a bit disturbing. You need to appreciate this relationship for what it is and just know the a break-up is and should be inevitable. You need to focus on your career in your 20s as one poster has already noted. I have been married for 5 years and shit aint easy. We literally have no external factors adversely affecting us(toxic family, money, health...etc) and shit still aint easy. My wife makes a few times the salary i make so there's constant posturing for frame. She knows she married a legit alpha stud, but still feels the need to acquire hand. She was incredibly sweet in the beginning but guess what, that eventually waned. Experience life some young homey
Just remember:
In our society, it's weird to get married young, have more than 2.2 kids, to be a good, stern Father (instead of a bumbling characture), to a woman who wants to be a wife and mother more than she wants to slave away for a man who doesn't care about her, only what money she can earn him.
But it's normal to have sex starting from 14 onwards, to be into bdsm/rape fantasies, to enjoy choking and tying up a bitch, and get slapped whilst your nipples are clamped to get off. It's normal for gay dudes to fuck each other in the ass on the street during a gay pride parade in public where even children can watch.
I could go on.
G