Quote: (10-15-2018 10:02 PM)Stickman Wrote:
Laner gave you good advice (maybe not the drugs part) You have the same hang up most of us do at that age. You're still caught up in the game phase and have a shit tons of "principle" but you don't understand the logic behind it.
You think somehow buying drinks or popping bottles is somehow akin P4P. That is ridiculous. You may have the money but you don't have the mindset of a rich successful person yet.
You have to give value to get value. Otherwise, you'll just be another young guy with great logistics because you have money but you still have to grind like the rest of them to get laid.
As stickman and Laner pointed out your problem is fairly common and I was just as extreme as you with regards to spending money on women at your age. Im here to tell you it's foolish. No woman will think you're a beta for offering to buy her a drink unless you come off as such. You want all the trappings of a high value male without exhibiting values of a high value male.
How can you expect a woman to fawn over you if you aren't properly conveying you are in fact high value. Buying nice shoes, a nice watch, a super dope apt and clothes isn't pay for play. It's looking presentable. Bottle service isn't pay for play it's providing a fun atmosphere and the real estate to ceremony in such an atmosphere. Sounds like you dont have some of the basic fundamentals of game downpacked which is to be expected at your, age. It also doesn't sound like you are very fond of women which could be an obstacle in game. If you hate these bitches they will be able to tell. If you understand these bitches as opposed to hate, you will be able to appreciate what makes us different.
As far as boxing, man you sound ridiculous. You aren't gonna get any brain damage by sparring once a week after you gain a level of proficiency. No good coach is gonna throw you to the wolves anyway. Your first sparring session will be heavily supervised but you're scared as well you should be. What makes a man is his willingness to overcome fear. I still get scared before every time I spar even if the guys is smaller and not as good as me. It's perfectly healthy. Lastly, stop quitting shit just cause you get a little uncomfortable. That's essentially a principle of game. That's how many men, irrespective of how attractive they are, overcome rejection. You gotta grow a pair little brother, dress to reflect your value and behave in such a way that reflects your value. As it's been said already, what exactly are you offering women with high SMV? Doesn't sound like you're offering them jack shit including a good time.