[DarkTriad]

(10-03-2018 06:35 PM)Hypno Wrote:  

There are a lot of guys in the over 40 thread who have been married and have kids, and don't want a LTR.

Only you can decide what is best for you. But marriage as an institution, especially in the West, is stacked against men. Its basically saying to a woman, I bet you half of everything I own that you will love me forever. Its unconscionable. But if you want to have children, which is a normal human desire, its very difficult to avoid.

It's amazingly easy to avoid. All players have the ability to have a quality girl crazily irrationally in love for at least a short time. And if you keep blasting bareback loads into her, you're going to be a father quickly whether you like it or not. Just pick one with good wife and mother qualities and you're off to the races.

The rest of it is just avoiding the mindfuck. For thousands of years, marriage laws served to strengthen families. We live in the first era where marriage actively works to de-stabilize families and gives your wife a quarter million dollar "signing bonus" to push you out you child's life and leave your daughter living with a stepfather who stares at her too long when she's coming out of the shower. Once you wrap your head around the fact that modern marriage hurts your children, it's gets really simple.

As long as you love your kids, and understand that modern marriage is the worst thing you could do to them, it's easy to stay strong and just say no. As long as your woman knows that you wouldn't be the only one to suffer in a divorce, that she would be the one losing her lifestyle if she broke up the family and took the children away from the father, you would be AMAZED at how many second chances and special treatment you'll get compared to your married chum(p)s.

I know it's a beautiful ceremony, and it's terrible that the feminists have taken that from us, but if you play your cards right, all you lose is a glorified prom, a word, and a piece of paper from the gov't, and in other respects you get to enjoys something like Grandpas marriage. If you get weak, and sign that slave contract, your odds for good "marriage" and family life go dramatically down. In theory, she has an advantage in a custody fight against an unmarried father, in reality, not being forced to pay for the nut-cutter lawyer she uses to take your kids away from you is such a massive factor it trumps everything else.

"But what if I'm just really into the marriage itself, for religious or social reasons or whatever".

If you're just THAT much into that piece of paper from the gov't, and you're financially secure enough that you could lose 80-90% of what you've got and not suffer too badly, go for it. But if you're going to be having kids, it's not just your future you're risking, you're putting THEIR futures at such terrible risk, it's just not responsible parenting. Always remember, Modern Marriage is anti-family, and it's just too dangerous to expose your children to it.