Some good advice on this thread. If you didn't have a baby together, I'd definitely say next her.
But the kid ...
If you aren't living with your baby, being the father figure ... somebody else will be. And you don't know who they will be or what they'll be like, but you can be sure they won't love your kid the way you do. Step-fathers and boyfriends are the source of a lot of abuse.
It'd be hard for me to walk away when my own kid is involved. I'd consider working on things to the extent that I could, and then maybe leave. Or maybe just start finding some side-pieces and mentally/emotionally distance myself from the girlfriend.
That's not fully red pill. But I have not seen the red pill fully account for kids being in the picture.
But the kid ...
If you aren't living with your baby, being the father figure ... somebody else will be. And you don't know who they will be or what they'll be like, but you can be sure they won't love your kid the way you do. Step-fathers and boyfriends are the source of a lot of abuse.
It'd be hard for me to walk away when my own kid is involved. I'd consider working on things to the extent that I could, and then maybe leave. Or maybe just start finding some side-pieces and mentally/emotionally distance myself from the girlfriend.
That's not fully red pill. But I have not seen the red pill fully account for kids being in the picture.