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I don't think I can give out my business name because I hit on 10 women every time I go out.
Its called networking. Approach only the hottest girls. Give them your business card. If they show up at your place, treat them to a round of drinks "on the house". That should keep them coming in. Hot women at your place will keep more men going in.
Profit.
(BTW, if you are hitting on 10 women everytime you go out, you need to step up your game.)
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Do you think it's a good idea to escalate in my business? (of course, after business hours)
No, dont give them anything.
Tell them to meet you at your restaurant. When they get there, tell them you are not done yet and tell your barman to "take care of her" (Obviously, your barman is a pivotal piece in your ensemble. He should have enough game to keep her entertained, and be intelligent enough not to hit on your chick) The go give out some orders, greet some guests, or just kill time at your office. After 15-30 minutes, get her to the door, pick your car, and go do whatever you have planned for the evening. Afterwards, go back to your restaurant (if you need to, like to pay the waiters or cash out the register), if you do, grab a bottle and tell her that you two are taking off to your place. If you dont, then just have some quick and easy food of the kind that impresses girls, some bubbly, and you are done.
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I just met this chick at the coffee shop from match.com. we talked for 30 min and I said 'we can go to my place'
she immediately started to say 'well I have to get up early.....' and I said 'I meant my business, it's a public place '
she changed her mind right away after I said that.
Just up you game. Im not saying that 30 minutes is not enough to take a girl home on a coffee date, but perhaps she needed more time. Bounce them around. Dont just expect her to be ready to fuck after a 5 bucks capuchino. Coffee, then a walk in the park, then an art gallery, then some shit at your place, then the bed. Never expect a woman to fuck you after just one thing, unless its a one night stand from the bar.
Analyze what you are doing point by point. If she balked at the idea of going to your place, perhaps you are going in to strong, too soon, or too creepy.