Quote: (09-21-2018 04:54 PM)Spaniard88 Wrote:
Quote: (09-21-2018 09:58 AM)wrapyojunk Wrote:
Lol calm down with the moral judgements.
Is it morally repugnant to bang a girl without telling her you have diabetes or epilepsy?
And no I most likely wouldn't date a girl who has HIV. My plan is just to continue to get wealthy and then it shouldn't matter that much.
If I date a girl for more than a few months I will tell her.
Wait, what the F? A few months? Not telling this to someone you have sex with used to be a felony, I think, I don't know if it still is, but even if it isn't, you've been out there spreading this thing for a few years now, and you can argue you didn't know at the time, which I think is BS, but you can make the argument. However, once you know, there's no argument, you need to disclose this to any girl you're about to have sex with, preferably much sooner, so they can have time to think about whether they want to continue seeing you.
And even if you think what you have isn't able to be spread, you should still disclose. Put the shoe on the other foot, man, if you were a girl getting fucked by someone, would you want to know this information? Of course you would.
I hope you see that.
Yeah Wrap, as much as I feel for your situation given what I went through, I think Spaniard is right here. You can't wait months to tell someone that your HIV+. I get that having that conversation with a woman would be very, very difficult but you really have to do the right thing and let them know early on. If the girl from whom you caught it had given you that same level of respect and told you prior to sex, then your whole life would be completely different. It's not the same as telling someone you're diabetic or epileptic because you can't pass that on to them via sex. In the US, it is a felony in every state except California I believe (another of a million reasons why California is a shithole). Not to be harsh here but it was being irresponsible that got you into this mess so you can't be so irresponsible as to endanger another person like this.