[DonnyGately]

(09-06-2018 09:54 PM)corsega Wrote:  

(09-06-2018 05:12 PM)DonnyGately Wrote:  

Looks don't matter more than they used to. Girls are absolutely sluttier, they matter less. They crave experiences, newness, taboo sex, a FWB who's not clingy. I've literally never been asked for my IG. Hell, 'dad bods' are even a thing for girls now. Of course, being fitter is a generic advantage, sure, but lotsa girls are very suspicious of guys that are 'too good looking' or 'too fit,' figuring them to be narcissistic, or gay, just gonna fuck and run, treat them like shit, etc.

IMHO, restart texts worked as well as they ever did. If the girl wasn't interested in you before, she won't be now. Same as it ever was.

You know what matters more than ever? Confidence. In my top 5 traits girls are looking for that's #1, 2, and 4.

Pro tip: the hotter/younger the girl, the more she lacks confidence. Even if she puts up a bitch shield at first.

It would be fair to note for the thread that you (exclusively?) game on Seeking Arrangement. Changes the context of your opinion quite a bit.

Not even remotely. Other than jealousy I have no idea why you would say that because I've posted about plenty of pickups IRL.

In order of pickups:
Night Game
social + biz circle
Daygame
fetlife
tinder+snap+fb/ig
all dating websites combined. I've probably been on all of them for at least a trial period over the past 15 years. The last 3 have serious Venn overlap.

I don't bother posting a lot on a huge topic like bar/club game because it's all been said before and by people better than me at it. I have 25 years experience but nothing new to add other than if I know some good spots to post-up, and I generally refrain from giving those out to the gen pop.

The hottest girl I've ever banged was a simple daygame pickup which I've mentioned here couple years ago -- she was sitting on a NYC park bench, 6' redhead with stunning features, looking sad so I sat down next to her and started chatting, sure enough she was a runway model, but getting rejected all day.
I made her laugh, she turned out to be very smart, instadate for ice cream, and in a following date with a few glasses of champagne she came back to my place and fucked my brains out. We did the fwb off and on for a long while, she was also a world-class wing for obvious reasons.

It was the initial pickup I'd recommend to anyone whether in 2005, 1988 or 1967.

In the SA thread, you wrote:

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Many of the girls I fuck completely forget which app they met me on. Once you have them in person it stops mattering.

I've been saying this for years and loudly to anyone who would listen. It doesn't matter what site or app you first msg on. It's the *same* girl, she's on 10 diff apps and 5 dating websites.

You also complained about your inability to get sorority girls. Is this why you're so negative on an advice thread to help guys actually get those exact girls?

Several people pointed out what you needed to work on and to avoid self-limiting beliefs. You've posted about getting flaked on 60-80% of the time, which just sounds absolutely shocking.