[MojaveMan]

Thank you guys for your thoughts and advice. Yes I am going to be planning my escape with my two close friends, but they live in Illinois. I live in Nevada so I heard the divorce laws here are pretty fair, more than most other states in the US. If I'm chilling in another state while this is all going down on paper in Nevada, then that should be ok right? So that I'm not near her? I also may not have been 100% innocent of all laws int he past so I have to scrub all her media devices while she is sleeping to make sure she doesn't have proof of anything against me... it's not a pleasant feeling being strung up by your ballsack and forced to play dog, in fact this hypothetical evidence against me may be the only reason why I haven't left her yet. Still, she has it in her mind that if we divorce she wants to go to court and "win" or at least try to "win" (she has virtually no understanding of the legal lingo whatsoever). I told her that because we have no assets, no income (now), and no children, that we would be wasting any judges time, which I don't want to do. I'm looking for work but I don't really want to start making income so that she can just take it from me. Any money I make would be wasted on her profligate nature. In that sense, I will start working again once I am free of her. I just don't feel like being raped by multiple systems at the same time if this shit goes down badly for me, if I'm already a deadbeat, they have nothing to take from me, and my protected veteran status should count for something in all this... more to come, thanks for hearing me out fellas.