I rarely say this...Listen to your mother.
My 2 cents
Im not making a moral judgement on your actions. What's right and wrong for you in this situation is between you and your self respect (and God if applicable).
But part of being a man is having the balls to take responsibility for one's own actions.
Under no circumstances tell your girl. Telling her about what happened is a thousand times more selfish, mean spirited and douchebaggery than the action itself.
You made the "mistake". Dont punish her...it doesn't sound like she deserves it.
Dont tell her.
Get a grip and grow a pair.
Youre old enough you should be helping your mother, not asking mommy for advice
My 2 cents
Im not making a moral judgement on your actions. What's right and wrong for you in this situation is between you and your self respect (and God if applicable).
But part of being a man is having the balls to take responsibility for one's own actions.
Under no circumstances tell your girl. Telling her about what happened is a thousand times more selfish, mean spirited and douchebaggery than the action itself.
You made the "mistake". Dont punish her...it doesn't sound like she deserves it.
Dont tell her.
Get a grip and grow a pair.
Youre old enough you should be helping your mother, not asking mommy for advice
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