The so called "clubs" (what a degradation of a word) are for women. As a man you go in there to get a girl and then eject with her to bedroom period.
Girls are getting fun in clubs because they get attention there.
The notion that clubs are "for fun" to men exists for two purposes:
1)To give plausible deniability to women why men are there other then finding a female to fuck.
2)To give excuses for most men (who have bad game) to themselves why they return home empty handed more often then not.
Actually only the 2nd one is true - most girls are smart enough to know that the first one is false, but they pretend to not know because they like hapless men hanging out there and giving them attention.
If you don't have fun in clubs then you are a sane person living in these insane times. Don't lose that to fit in.
If you have "friends" who are going to a club to have fun and not pick up girls - ditch them - they are only cockblocking you. Befriend people who have similar goals to you. Assuming your goals are about self-improvement of course. Don't hang out with losers or you will become one.
If you want to hang out with your bros there are better places to that - like gym, fishing trip, helping each other repair cars in garage or simply taking a walk. You don't need any fancy consumerist crap you are programmed to need to interact with people. You don't need a club, you don't even need a restaurant and you don't need to order anything.
Girls are getting fun in clubs because they get attention there.
The notion that clubs are "for fun" to men exists for two purposes:
1)To give plausible deniability to women why men are there other then finding a female to fuck.
2)To give excuses for most men (who have bad game) to themselves why they return home empty handed more often then not.
Actually only the 2nd one is true - most girls are smart enough to know that the first one is false, but they pretend to not know because they like hapless men hanging out there and giving them attention.
If you don't have fun in clubs then you are a sane person living in these insane times. Don't lose that to fit in.
If you have "friends" who are going to a club to have fun and not pick up girls - ditch them - they are only cockblocking you. Befriend people who have similar goals to you. Assuming your goals are about self-improvement of course. Don't hang out with losers or you will become one.
If you want to hang out with your bros there are better places to that - like gym, fishing trip, helping each other repair cars in garage or simply taking a walk. You don't need any fancy consumerist crap you are programmed to need to interact with people. You don't need a club, you don't even need a restaurant and you don't need to order anything.