I think that's a risk of the three date thing -- you're auditioning as a boyfriend, and she's rationalizing how cool / nice / fun you are while suppressing any kind of physical judgements until it's too late. Maybe she "wanted to want" to fuck you. That's not what we want though.
Something tells me, when @Hank fucks a stripper, he's not wining and dining as much?
Also, say, on date 1, what is the rapport like? Are you getting sexual when chopping it up with her? Or are you just dropping the "my life is fun and fancy free, follow me" vibes?
Most girls want a cool friend, some think they are supposed to want a Mom-worthy boyfriend...
Maybe sexualize quicker or get to the point of a rejection much sooner to avoid wasted time.
I don't know -- I've converted Maybe girls, I get out ahead of it once I feel they are on the fence, I get bolder and try things out, and many times it ends up in my favor. If not, then far less time wasted.
Something tells me, when @Hank fucks a stripper, he's not wining and dining as much?
Also, say, on date 1, what is the rapport like? Are you getting sexual when chopping it up with her? Or are you just dropping the "my life is fun and fancy free, follow me" vibes?
Most girls want a cool friend, some think they are supposed to want a Mom-worthy boyfriend...
Maybe sexualize quicker or get to the point of a rejection much sooner to avoid wasted time.
I don't know -- I've converted Maybe girls, I get out ahead of it once I feel they are on the fence, I get bolder and try things out, and many times it ends up in my favor. If not, then far less time wasted.