Quote: (06-21-2018 05:27 AM)coffeedrinker Wrote:
Quote: (06-20-2018 11:59 PM)FullThrottleTX Wrote:
Quote: (06-15-2018 01:52 PM)coffeedrinker Wrote:
What I guess I'm asking is, do girls purposefully avoid seeing someone they like in certain situations?
Honestly, she probably does like you. It's happened to me many times when girls put the brakes on and it's completely normal if this was a social circle chick. It's a good sign. It's a risk for her to do anything with you so soon. Just chill out. Put a little bit of time in. Not too much time. 5 dates is my cap. Don't push for non-sex sexual shit either in the interim because that will ruin the vibe. It's gotta build up to the full on thing.
After I went on golf date, she told me she was free in the evening 2 days later and I told her I would think of something and let her know on the day.
Msged her when the day came and she said she was having another dinner with a friend but could do something till 6pm.
I told her to enjoy her dinner as I don't like rushed meet-ups.
She just replied: " I understand, I'm sorry"
Two days later she hasn't msged anything else and as she leaves on sunday, I think I'm not gonna msg her anymore.
Then again, its very unlikely I'll see her again so may give one last try. Usually I would be more careful in social circles, but I'm doing a longer course and all of them graduate, so probably won't come back to haunt me.
It sounds like you're not very spontaneous.
You've gotta move faster with less deliberation. Who cares what you do for a date... Don't overthink it. When you said, "I'll think of something to do..." more or less you were signaling hesitation.
You can have back-to-back dates, there is no rule you need to follow that says, wait 2 days and text her back with a plan.
Have date ideas in your head that can be executed at a moments notice, don't put yourself in a position to have to think about it.