[robreke]

Your text game sucks.

You're asking too many questions. You're saying things like "I understand if you're not interested"

Text is to set up dates. Text if for logistics. Maybe just a little comfort. But mostly for logistics. Once a date is set up via text, pretty much go completely silent until the day or the date or until the actual date.

this is true, until at least, you've banged a girl several times and she is texting you to initiate conversation. in other words, until she's hooked.

Getting to know each other, the questions, the banter, the humor; all of that is done in person. Doing it on text, as you have been, is a mistake.

If you have lengthy ass text exchanges with girls and tell them a bunch of information via text, there is no more mystery to you. So, the girl thinks "I already know everything about this guy. He's puked up everything about himself. He's no longer a mystery. Boring" and she moves on.

Her texts should be longer and more wordy than yours. When I read your text exchanges it's the opposite.

You need to study text game and apply it. In short: Be brief but upbeat. Use text for logistics and to set up dates. Once the date is set up - Stop texting. Don't text her until you see her again, except for maybe the afternoon of the date if you want to confirm.

Keep the long conversations and questions for in person.