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I tried to hint that I wanted to be fwb - in case he was confused about me wanting to be his gf.

The next week I texted him to spend the night - he said he was going out with friends but would let me know "for sure" if he ended up in my part of town. Nothing. I emailed few days later telling him to let me know if there was no chance and proposed we get together the next week. Nothing. Emailed one final time telling him I got it and would back off for good. He read that email 5 times in 3 days (for a good amount of time each) but hasn't respond... yet.

I'd really like to read this email that he read 5 times that she sent with a Tracker (In capable of detaching from a FwB).

Notice the TRIED to HINT to WANT to FWB.. Just message FBs / FWBs once in 1/2 weeks. Done. Clear Enough. ... Why the HINTING and HOPING to get the message across.. (Rolls Eyes)

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We slept together and I was pleased... twice (very considerate lover). I think he might've wanted a bj but he didn't specifically ask for one - and I thought I'd save that for the next time.

And now in a heated session one has to ASK for shit? Is the husband or the beta BF who has to ask for every damn thing during private time?
And she was gonna what save it for the honey moon.. like a PRIZE he gets for PLEASING her or buying here JEWELRY?

I seriously think Pop Culture (Womens Magazines, Do's and Don'ts columns/ advise) has fucked with womens heads more than they already were/ are naturally due to their Emotional Response circuits/ brains.

(11-01-2012 04:56 PM)tenderman100 Wrote:  

That is great.

Note how little she actually TALKED to him. It was mostly texts and emails. So rather than ask him directly "look, I find you hot and I want to fuck you whenever you want to" she shucks and jives and let's the hamster spin around. Why? Because women LOVE the hamster, LOVE the mulling over in their minds the this-that-these-and-thoses of "what the hell is happening here?" It gives their emotional life meaning.

And it's another example where a woman simply cannot stand rejection, and has to go through all kinds of mental hoops to try to suppress that feeling, and fails miserably and makes it even worse as the hamster sprints at warp speed. Whether the guy had game or not, by his diffidence and aloofness he created the semi-panic state that the best gaming does -- namely, the "I wonder why he's rejecting me" mental frenzy and the resultant pursuit of the MAN, rather than the other way around.

Fucking classic!!

Patrice O Neal spitting TRUTH in between every LINE. (Hamster.. in their head)
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DEAD on the inside Thats you