Quote: (06-06-2018 08:55 AM)TravelerKai Wrote:
Quote: (06-06-2018 08:26 AM)kuqezi Wrote:
Quote: (06-06-2018 05:45 AM)TravelerKai Wrote:
You should have said where you are the first time. If you live in Vietnam, certain gals won't like all those tats. Wear a nice long shirt and pants. Asian girls are intimidated by beards although some might like it. Some love body hair and some don't.
You can keep lifting weights but it's not necessary there. Your problem is game and culture adjustments. Language learning will help as well.
I was under the impression that you lived in the West. Location makes a huge difference mate. Game is not always the same everywhere.
OP, ^this...pay attention to this post by TK. I think it has the right answer for you.
All that was said before stands and you should definitely improve but again location location location.
Try to come up with a plan, with a goal, start to walk the walk rather than talk the talk!
You would be surprised the amount of self induced cock blocking guys put themselves through in Asia. I know of a white dude in China that cannot get second dates to save his life. He gets fired from every teaching job he gets within 2 months. What is the problem? Dude has 2 full sleeves of tattoos. On one arm are 2 anime girls. He insists on wearing short sleeve shirts. He once got fired on his first day at one place.
Don't be that guy.
You can dress like an older local Asian guy with with the nice shirt and slacks with flip flops and have keys clipped hanging off your belt, and pull ass like a pro.
Vietnam might be too hot to rock a sport coat, but you gotta come up with better ideas so that you can reel in the gals. Tats make them think gang, weirdo, unstable, low value, etc. etc.
Sometimes being too Western is a bad thing and gives negative SMV.
You're right. Over 40s still think tattoos are for gangsters!
I always cover mine up.
Most of our teachers have tattoos but they all cover them for the most part. I have to send reminders to our staff to keep them covered as it reflects negatively on us as we need to keep a clean cut image.
As for the getting laid: its so easy here. If you want to you can go on tinder and get laid within a date or two. Matches are abundant.
I only make it more challenging because I focus on dating fellow white people (usually - I've broken that rule 3 or 4 times in the last year - but just one night stands).