Yeah, great comment by others and I agree with them.
Other advices that I would add is that, when you have done a thousand or two thousand cold-approaches, you become really nihilistic and stop giving a F.
This happened to me and I had to kind of backtrack and calibrate to the other people's feelings, emotions, etc...
(So ignoring things are not the end solution. If you just ignore, ignore ignore, and can't read social cues, you will come off as a sociopath or a psychopath.)
I would say that the key is the balance between the two.
Now days, I understand how people are feeling, what they are thinking, but I don't care for the most part if it doesn't change who I am. I think age and experience definitely helps.
I used to give a fuck a lot in high school, but I am turning 25 in couple months and really have changed my personality dramatically that there are only few things that I care about...
I recommend watching this video several times...
It will help you understand how to balance the "intent" and "freedom"...
I think the key to life is mastering the doublethink or accepting two paradoxical ideas and really embracing them to be successful.
Other advices that I would add is that, when you have done a thousand or two thousand cold-approaches, you become really nihilistic and stop giving a F.
This happened to me and I had to kind of backtrack and calibrate to the other people's feelings, emotions, etc...
(So ignoring things are not the end solution. If you just ignore, ignore ignore, and can't read social cues, you will come off as a sociopath or a psychopath.)
I would say that the key is the balance between the two.
Now days, I understand how people are feeling, what they are thinking, but I don't care for the most part if it doesn't change who I am. I think age and experience definitely helps.
I used to give a fuck a lot in high school, but I am turning 25 in couple months and really have changed my personality dramatically that there are only few things that I care about...
I recommend watching this video several times...
It will help you understand how to balance the "intent" and "freedom"...
I think the key to life is mastering the doublethink or accepting two paradoxical ideas and really embracing them to be successful.
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