What if a guy spent most of his time on bettering his life and not enough on game?
05-20-2018, 01:16 PM
Your topic misses the point OP, but I can understand how when you're a beginner to this stuff game and life seem entirely separate.
Game and life my friend, are one in the same. To better yourself at life involves learning game, and to learn game betters your life. Keep in mind here, the game I'm referring to here isn't the canned sort, lines and openers, but the underlying fundamentals. The basics of game are confidence, outcome independence, and social calibration. You do those three well, you'll not only do well with women, but in business, in life, and in negotiations, which make or break your women, your business and your life.
To answer your original question: if the guy in your example focused on being a truly well rounded man, he would no doubt find himself with an abundance of female company. You do not need to be "skilled" in cold approach to live a life of abundance. However, unless you achieve tier 1 success (movie star, athlete, high level model, etc), a successful man who does not practice a frequent approach mechanism of some kind will have a more difficult time filling his ledger with women, considering few women will openly throw themselves at you without prompting. More likely than not, this successful man would identify the weakness in the women area of his life, and then set out to push more women into the pipeline.
Game and life my friend, are one in the same. To better yourself at life involves learning game, and to learn game betters your life. Keep in mind here, the game I'm referring to here isn't the canned sort, lines and openers, but the underlying fundamentals. The basics of game are confidence, outcome independence, and social calibration. You do those three well, you'll not only do well with women, but in business, in life, and in negotiations, which make or break your women, your business and your life.
To answer your original question: if the guy in your example focused on being a truly well rounded man, he would no doubt find himself with an abundance of female company. You do not need to be "skilled" in cold approach to live a life of abundance. However, unless you achieve tier 1 success (movie star, athlete, high level model, etc), a successful man who does not practice a frequent approach mechanism of some kind will have a more difficult time filling his ledger with women, considering few women will openly throw themselves at you without prompting. More likely than not, this successful man would identify the weakness in the women area of his life, and then set out to push more women into the pipeline.