Quote: (05-16-2018 05:37 PM)firat113 Wrote:
Try tricking your brain into thinking that this is just a friendly conversation rather than "an approach", because once you start as an approach and your brain isn't used to it yet, it won't come out naturally. It will seem forced or non-genuine.
Beautiful post. Couldn't agree more. Nothing is more creepy than you not being genuine, all-in or comfortable with your approach. Classic direct vs indirect debate can go on and on, but the best approach is the approach you are most comfortable with and build on that (add more sexual spikes and such) will overall help you to where you want to lead the relationship towards.