You guys made out at the club. She agreed to leave with you. She agreed to go to your place. She got down to her underwear and went to your bed. This girl did just about everything except straight up ask "Could you please fuck me?"
I agree with the need-to-be-more-aggressive crowd. This girl didn't turn down a single advance of yours so you weren't get denied anything, and she went along with your every direction... until you stopped directing. Sounds like you just got cold feet going after what you wanted.
I know this thread was started years ago and OP hasn't posted here in over year a year but my response isn't really for him - this goes to any guy who over analyzes. The whole "She was sitting away from me in the cab" and "She was turned away from me in the bed" is bullshit minutiae guys use to psyche themselves out of getting laid. The big picture is the girl has been blatantly showing she was DTF from the onset and OP dropped the ball. I know because I've been there, and I've done this. I had a girl who was aggressively DTF and came back to my place with me and instead of jumping her bones I played it safe and decided to fix her a glass of water and a bowl of fuckin ramen because I thought she was hungry and drank a bit much and within 10 minutes she was passed the fuck out on my couch. Next morning she needed a ride asap to pick up her kid from her baby daddy's place or some shit. Hot piece of ass that I never got to sample and I have no one to blame but myself.
Keep in mind: "Aggressive" here does not mean forcing someone to do something they don't want to do. It simply means taking action and going for what you want without waiting for explicit instruction. It's foolish to wait for a girl to make the move on you here. It's not her job to be the aggressive one.
I agree with the need-to-be-more-aggressive crowd. This girl didn't turn down a single advance of yours so you weren't get denied anything, and she went along with your every direction... until you stopped directing. Sounds like you just got cold feet going after what you wanted.
I know this thread was started years ago and OP hasn't posted here in over year a year but my response isn't really for him - this goes to any guy who over analyzes. The whole "She was sitting away from me in the cab" and "She was turned away from me in the bed" is bullshit minutiae guys use to psyche themselves out of getting laid. The big picture is the girl has been blatantly showing she was DTF from the onset and OP dropped the ball. I know because I've been there, and I've done this. I had a girl who was aggressively DTF and came back to my place with me and instead of jumping her bones I played it safe and decided to fix her a glass of water and a bowl of fuckin ramen because I thought she was hungry and drank a bit much and within 10 minutes she was passed the fuck out on my couch. Next morning she needed a ride asap to pick up her kid from her baby daddy's place or some shit. Hot piece of ass that I never got to sample and I have no one to blame but myself.
Keep in mind: "Aggressive" here does not mean forcing someone to do something they don't want to do. It simply means taking action and going for what you want without waiting for explicit instruction. It's foolish to wait for a girl to make the move on you here. It's not her job to be the aggressive one.