Hey guys, quick question. I’ve noticed some conflicting advice regarding on what to do when she cancels a date without good reason. 1) Avoid beta butthurt behavior and be unreactive because you should have a life and other plates (i.e. don’t make a big deal about it, invite her again some other time). 2) Be a man with boundaries and not tolerate bad behavior from anybody, even if the offender happens to have nice tits (i.e. call her out on her shit and/or next her).
Both make sense but… If you’re unreactive you’re not setting boundaries. And if you’re setting boundaries you’re being reactive. So which one is best? What’s your flake tolerance policy like? Thanks.
Both make sense but… If you’re unreactive you’re not setting boundaries. And if you’re setting boundaries you’re being reactive. So which one is best? What’s your flake tolerance policy like? Thanks.