The very first thing you have to do OP, is to change your attitude, the whole "I'm 27 and my life is over" shtick which animates and permeates your entire post is not going to do you any good.
The late 20s are a tough time for men and it is very common to feel like you've seen it all and that old age is creeping up on you (Which is absolutely ridiculous)
I'm the same age as you. Two years ago I lost my finance job, had a bad breakup, became an alcoholic and was staying in my apartment all day ordering food, drinking myself to oblivion and contemplating about my shitty situation in life. Endless mental masturbation telling myself how much of a loser and idiot I am. That my life was over now that I was almost 26 with no job, no girl and a criminal record (DUI).
Overtime, this can have disastrous consequences on your psyche. After a couple months, I nearly committed suicide. Had cops arrest me and take me to a hospital where my parents had to pick me up from 3000 miles away.
2 years later ... I'm overseas for medical school, got a model girlfriend, run a small business sourcing a rare raw material to Europe, graduating in 2.5 years and my social circle consists of winners.
It is very easy to let pity for yourself cloud your judgement. I think you already know what u need to do. If somebody who is not you wrote your exact same post, what advice would you give them? Solutions are pretty clear but when it comes to our own problems we let the woe me attitude take over.
So here's what I would do.
1. Adopt the attitude of ... "I'm 27 and had a good ride in my early 20s. Made some money, lost some money, partied hard, decent lay count. I tried being who I'm not and probably invested a bit too much time on women. No big deal. Now, it's time to get serious".
2. Stop using female approval and pussy as a measuring stick for success. RSD and the manosphere can definitely warp your mind that way.
3. Quit drugs and drinking immediately. You will always be walking through life with an anchor tied to your ankle that way. The effect alcohol can have on your psyche is tremendous. Don't even get me started on drugs.
4. Get a job and/or engage something productive and value adding. Create value. No more pickup videos, game blogs and self improvement books. Be a net producer.
5. Lift 3-6 x times a week depending on your current fitness level.
Good news is you're still young enough to start over. Bad news is 26-28 is when you have to pick a course of action immediately and close all other doors.
Hope this helps.
The late 20s are a tough time for men and it is very common to feel like you've seen it all and that old age is creeping up on you (Which is absolutely ridiculous)
I'm the same age as you. Two years ago I lost my finance job, had a bad breakup, became an alcoholic and was staying in my apartment all day ordering food, drinking myself to oblivion and contemplating about my shitty situation in life. Endless mental masturbation telling myself how much of a loser and idiot I am. That my life was over now that I was almost 26 with no job, no girl and a criminal record (DUI).
Overtime, this can have disastrous consequences on your psyche. After a couple months, I nearly committed suicide. Had cops arrest me and take me to a hospital where my parents had to pick me up from 3000 miles away.
2 years later ... I'm overseas for medical school, got a model girlfriend, run a small business sourcing a rare raw material to Europe, graduating in 2.5 years and my social circle consists of winners.
It is very easy to let pity for yourself cloud your judgement. I think you already know what u need to do. If somebody who is not you wrote your exact same post, what advice would you give them? Solutions are pretty clear but when it comes to our own problems we let the woe me attitude take over.
So here's what I would do.
1. Adopt the attitude of ... "I'm 27 and had a good ride in my early 20s. Made some money, lost some money, partied hard, decent lay count. I tried being who I'm not and probably invested a bit too much time on women. No big deal. Now, it's time to get serious".
2. Stop using female approval and pussy as a measuring stick for success. RSD and the manosphere can definitely warp your mind that way.
3. Quit drugs and drinking immediately. You will always be walking through life with an anchor tied to your ankle that way. The effect alcohol can have on your psyche is tremendous. Don't even get me started on drugs.
4. Get a job and/or engage something productive and value adding. Create value. No more pickup videos, game blogs and self improvement books. Be a net producer.
5. Lift 3-6 x times a week depending on your current fitness level.
Good news is you're still young enough to start over. Bad news is 26-28 is when you have to pick a course of action immediately and close all other doors.
Hope this helps.