Quote: (01-23-2018 12:21 PM)EndsExpect Wrote:
Quote: (01-23-2018 06:24 AM)Phineas Wrote:
She's 31. Yep total bullshit answer. Her mother also has Asperger's – ie. emotional neglect.
Hey Ends, you made me realise where all this was heading and why I found her so exciting... got myself caught in the ol' BPD beartrap (didn't recognise it as she hasn't been angry with me but has a history of anger outbursts with her friends and past relationships). She certainly has abandonment issues - good call about "being fucked in the head"
So, she has BPD characteristics?
If I were in your situation... this is where I would get her into the kinkiest shit that turned me on. I'd straight bust out the whips and ball gags! I would push her limits in the bedroom and see if she likes it.
If she is really BPD then she will happily play along. Then just let the relationship play out. Eventually her crazyness will exert itself and you can dump her... until she is ready to come back for more. I'd play that game for at least a year or so... Imagine any kinky shit you have wanted to try, but never had the opportunity. If you play it right, BPD chicks are the kind that will actually bring other women to you for threesomes!
Yeh mate, I'd pushed the sexual boundaries with her whist we were together (didn't get quite to the S&M level, but plenty of domination and then some)... her total lack of hesitancy was yet another red flag. She's at that age where I'd feel bad about pumping and dumping; I know other guys don't care about this, but I knowing that she actually believes she wants to settle down, a pump and dump would mess her up even more. If we were both 5 years younger I wouldn't mind so much.